<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>The Part Everyone Skips</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/</link><description>Book reviews, literary analysis, and reading notes that skip straight to the good parts - the insights and observations everyone else glosses over. on The Part Everyone Skips</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2026 15:42:00 -0700</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://theparteveryoneskips.com/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>New-to-me Authors Read in 2025</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260201-ttt-new-authors-in-2025/</link><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2026 15:42:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260201-ttt-new-authors-in-2025/</guid><description>A Top Ten Tuesday list of new-to-me authors I read in 2025, plus the real question underneath: was I pulled in by the author, the premise, or the hype, and did the book deliver?</description><category>top ten tuesday</category><category>new authors</category><category>instagram</category><category>reading lists</category></item><item><title>Books I Wish I Could Read Again for the First Time</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260128-books-i-wish-i-could-read-again-for-the-first-time/</link><pubDate>Wed, 28 Jan 2026 11:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260128-books-i-wish-i-could-read-again-for-the-first-time/</guid><description>A list of books I'd love to read again for the first time, that didn’t just entertain me, but woke something up too.</description><category>reading lists</category><category>instagram</category><category>Wednesday Weekly Blogging Challenge</category></item><item><title>Goals for 2026 &amp; Defensive Book Quoting</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260120-top-ten-tuesday-goals-for-2026/</link><pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2026 11:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260120-top-ten-tuesday-goals-for-2026/</guid><description>This year I'm setting reading and book goals while trying to stay out of the performance trap.</description><category>top ten tuesday</category><category>essay</category><category>reading lists</category><category>instagram</category></item><item><title>The Grace of Reading for Transformation, Not Consumption</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/grace-of-reading-for-transformation/</link><pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2026 14:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/grace-of-reading-for-transformation/</guid><description>Reading doesn’t need to be optimized. An essay on escaping reading-as-productivity and rediscovering reading as transformation, not consumption.</description><category>essay</category></item><item><title>Quick Lit: Short and Sweet Reviews — January 2026</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/011526-modern-mrs-darcy-quick-lit-short-and-sweet-reviews-jan/</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 Jan 2026 09:30:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/011526-modern-mrs-darcy-quick-lit-short-and-sweet-reviews-jan/</guid><description>A grumpy bookseller novel, Lydia Millet’s razor-sharp short stories, Joy Harjo as the wise auntie we all need, and a strange new Roxane Gay–imprint release about grief, obsession, and the soul of a dog.</description><category>quick lit</category><category>reviews</category><category>reading lists</category><category>modern mrs darcy</category><category>instagram</category></item><item><title>New Books I’m Looking Foward To This Year (First Half of 2026)</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260107-top-ten-tuesday-most-anticipated-books-beginning-2026/</link><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2026 22:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260107-top-ten-tuesday-most-anticipated-books-beginning-2026/</guid><description>Books that arrive already humming with questions: about how we live, what we inherit, what we automate, what we grieve, and what we still hope books can do for us when the news is unbearable and the group chat is tired.</description><category>top ten tuesday</category><category>reading lists</category><category>instagram</category></item><item><title>Best Books I Read in 2025</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260106-top-ten-tuesday-best-books-i-read-in-2025/</link><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2026 22:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20260106-top-ten-tuesday-best-books-i-read-in-2025/</guid><description>A curated list of fiction and nonfiction exploring burnout, work, grief, attention, and belonging. Personal notes on books that helped me think more clearly about modern life.</description><category>top ten tuesday</category><category>reading lists</category><category>instagram</category></item><item><title>Serviceberry Abundance and Reciprocity in the Natural World by Robin Wall Kimmerer</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/serviceberry-robin-kimmerer/</link><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2026 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/serviceberry-robin-kimmerer/</guid><description>The book argues that joy and justice are not separate pursuits, and that caring for the earth is less about sacrifice than participation. By treating the world as a gift rather than a resource, Kimmerer reframes responsibility as relationship—and asks what becomes possible when we take only what we need and let the rest circulate.</description><category>Reviews</category></item><item><title>Meditations for Mortals by Oliver Burkehead</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/meditations-for-mortals-oliver-burkeman/</link><pubDate>Mon, 05 Jan 2026 12:36:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/meditations-for-mortals-oliver-burkeman/</guid><description>My conversations helped me recognise a deeper issue, too, which is the way our ceaseless efforts to get into the driver’s seat of life seem to sap it of the very sense of aliveness that makes it worth living in the first place.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>meditations</category></item><item><title>Most Recent Additions to My Bookshelf</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20251230-top-ten-tuesday/</link><pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2025 22:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20251230-top-ten-tuesday/</guid><description>My Top Ten Tuesday Post-Christmas book haul reveals: translated Nobel Prize winner I keep abandoning, writing guides that might finally crack my note-taking chaos, a bookseller so bitter it might be too mean even for me, and the best neighborhood book box score of 2025.</description><category>top ten tuesday</category><category>reading lists</category><category>instagram</category></item><item><title>Ten Books I'd Love to Be Gifted This Year</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20251223-top-ten-tuesday/</link><pubDate>Wed, 24 Dec 2025 22:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/20251223-top-ten-tuesday/</guid><description>Top Ten Tuesday - From the only cookbook Marcella Hazan brought to America to Pynchon's 'great cheese novel,' this year's wishlist has some stories to tell. (Plus: the housing market horror novel that might hurt too much to read.)</description><category>top ten tuesday</category><category>reading lists</category><category>instagram</category></item><item><title>Stone Yard Devotional by Charlotte Wood</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/stone-yard-devotional-charlotte-wood/</link><pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2025 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/stone-yard-devotional-charlotte-wood/</guid><description>The fact was that Annabel was so disgusted by greed, by the ruination of the natural world because of it, that, like ascetics before her, the only action she could take was to remove herself, bit by bit, from the obscenity of this excess. 'Her suffering was an existential and a moral problem,' he said. 'Not a medical one.'</description><category>Fiction</category><category>Australia</category><category>climate fiction</category><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>The Road to Tender Hearts</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-road-to-tender-hearts-annie-hartnett/</link><pubDate>Sat, 30 Aug 2025 12:34:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-road-to-tender-hearts-annie-hartnett/</guid><description>Some people will always ignore the sign, no matter how clear and direct it is.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>Road trip novel</category></item><item><title>The Dog of the South by Charles Portis</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-dog-of-the-south-charles-portis/</link><pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2025 12:35:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-dog-of-the-south-charles-portis/</guid><description>I asked him if he was going to British Honduras on vacation and he said, 'Vacation! Do you think I'm the kind of man who takes vacations?'</description><category>Road trip novel</category><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>The Antidote by Karen Russel</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-antidote-karen-russel/</link><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2025 14:42:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-antidote-karen-russel/</guid><description>The plow that broke these plains was the plow that broke my family back in German-occupied Poland: the plow of empire. The plow that displaces and murders people, tearing them from their homes. The plow that levels more than tallgrass. The plow pushed by people like me.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>Dust bowl</category></item><item><title>Native Nations: A Millennium in North America by Kathleen DuVal</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/native-nations-a-millennium-in-north-america-kathleen-duval/</link><pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2025 22:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/native-nations-a-millennium-in-north-america-kathleen-duval/</guid><description>For too long, most Americans didn't take oral history seriously, creating a mystery where there never was one. The question of who built these places and where they went are no mystery, O'odham elders and historians repeat: 'We've always lived here.'</description><category>Pulitzer Prize</category><category>History</category><category>Indigenous</category><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>Go As A River by Shelley Read</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/go-as-a-river-shelley-read/</link><pubDate>Mon, 09 Dec 2024 12:36:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/go-as-a-river-shelley-read/</guid><description>I had also gathered along the way all the tiny pieces connecting me to everything else, and doing this had delivered me here, with two fists of forest soil in my palms and a heart still learning to be unafraid of itself.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>Colorado</category></item><item><title>Small Things Like These by Claire Keegan</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/small-things-like-these-claire-keegan/</link><pubDate>Wed, 27 Nov 2024 12:42:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/small-things-like-these-claire-keegan/</guid><description>Always it was the same, Furlong thought; always they carried mechanically on without pause, to the next job at hand. What would life be like, he wondered, if they were given time to think and reflect over things? Might their lives be different or much the same – or would they just lose the run of themselves?</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>Mammoth by Eva Baltasar</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/mammoth-eve-baltasar/</link><pubDate>Mon, 25 Nov 2024 12:43:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/mammoth-eve-baltasar/</guid><description>Reducing life to an Excel spreadsheet felt like a crime. I hated my tool, the specialist axe I used to cut up emotions and memories, the experience and suffering of those people who, at the end of the day, had somehow persuaded life to put up with them all those years.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>Spain</category><category>Fiction</category></item><item><title>Blood Test by Charles Baxter</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/blood-test-charles-baxter/</link><pubDate>Mon, 11 Nov 2024 10:52:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/blood-test-charles-baxter/</guid><description>Joe's lying on the floor and has got earbuds on and is listening to the Go-Fuck-Yourself-Electrocute-Me-Monster-Death-Metal music he likes, singers screaming as if they're being tasered.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>Sheila Levine Is Dead and Living in New York</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/sheila-levine-is-dead-and-living-in-new-york-gail-parent/</link><pubDate>Thu, 24 Oct 2024 12:35:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/sheila-levine-is-dead-and-living-in-new-york-gail-parent/</guid><description>YOU CAN'T IMAGINE how great I felt once I made the decision. I know it's strange, but I felt healthy. You don't know what a relief it is to finally ignore Dr. Stillman and his water diet, to say good-bye to Dr. Atkins and his low carbohydrates. Now I didn't even have to consider getting those pregnant women's urine shots. True. They help you lose weight. Yes, sir, the first thing I did when I made the decision to kill myself was to stop dieting. Let them dig a wider hole.</description><category>New York</category><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>The Coin by Yasmin Zaher</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-coin-yasmin-zaher/</link><pubDate>Mon, 26 Aug 2024 10:32:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-coin-yasmin-zaher/</guid><description>Two thousand more years of snail cream and you will see a woman's brain through her face.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>The Friend by Sigrid Nunez</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-friend-sigred-nunez/</link><pubDate>Sun, 25 Aug 2024 10:29:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-friend-sigred-nunez/</guid><description>As if words could not also be fists. Aren't often fists.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>Margo's Got Money Problems by Rufi Thorpe</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/margos-got-money-problems-rufi-thorpe/</link><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2024 19:45:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/margos-got-money-problems-rufi-thorpe/</guid><description>And we shook on it there under the glowing red hat of the Arby's, with Ric Flair and the Virgin Mary smiling down on us, willing the story to go on, to never end, to start over again, one adventure leading to the next, and we would never die, and we'd be young forever, and we would scream to the crowd, 'Look at me! Look at the beautiful, insane things I can do with my body! Look at me! Love me!' Because that's all art is, in the end.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>adaptations</category></item><item><title>Rebel Girl by Kathleen Hanna</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/rebel-girl-kathleen-hannah/</link><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2024 19:46:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/rebel-girl-kathleen-hannah/</guid><description>Maybe the struggle for language was the moment we were trapped in. Why were we always supposed to answer ignorant questions with thoughtful, articulate answers? Why were we always explaining ourselves? Maybe that was what third-wave girls were about: speaking back to power with sounds that didn't always make sense.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>Memoir</category></item><item><title>Martyr!</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/martyr-kaveh-akbar/</link><pubDate>Sun, 21 Apr 2024 11:36:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/martyr-kaveh-akbar/</guid><description>It feels so American to discount dreams because they're not built of objects, of things you can hold and catalogue and then put in a safe. Dreams give us voices, visions, ideas, mortal terrors, and departed beloveds. Nothing counts more to an individual, or less to an empire...'Paradise is mine today, as cash in hand,' Hafez had written. 'Why should I count upon the puritan's pledge of tomorrow?'</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>Fiction</category><category>New York</category></item><item><title>Anita de Monte Laughs Last by Xochitl Gonzalez</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/anita-de-monte-laughs-last-xotichl-gonzalez/</link><pubDate>Wed, 03 Apr 2024 10:39:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/anita-de-monte-laughs-last-xotichl-gonzalez/</guid><description>Human will is a particularly powerful magic. Alchemy happens when a person truly decides something; when a mind is changed. We'd shared exchanges like this hundreds of times before, my husband and I. Tiny acts of violence enacted with words. Exchanges that had cut and left me bleeding, with my best stuff—confidence, clarity—pooling down, away from me, onto the floor. But not that night. No. Because that day I had decided to reclaim my might; to cease to be shrunk. And in my decision, I'd grown a new version of myself.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category></item><item><title>Berlin by Bea Setton</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/berlin-a-novel-bea-setton/</link><pubDate>Mon, 03 Jul 2023 11:36:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/berlin-a-novel-bea-setton/</guid><description>But souls are not recast with a change of decor. Of course I'd always known this, everyone does, but to live it again and again in each new city and flat, to perform varieties of the same exhausting choreography only to find myself in the same spot, hating myself in the mirror, was draining me of the last reserves of self-respect I had left.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>books set in Berlin</category></item><item><title>The Man Who Could Move Clouds by Ingrid Rojas Contreras</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-man-who-could-move-clouds-by-ingrid-rojas-contreras/</link><pubDate>Fri, 19 May 2023 12:34:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/the-man-who-could-move-clouds-by-ingrid-rojas-contreras/</guid><description>Mami says she lost the gift of seeing ghosts when my sister was born, and the gift of hearing voices when I was born, but in the wake of her decreased power, she retained the ability to foretell the future, as well as the eerie yet modest talent of appearing in two places at once.</description><category>Notes &amp; Highlights</category><category>Columbia</category><category>Memoir</category></item><item><title>Ghost Work: How to Stop Silicon Valley from Building a New Global Underclass by Mary L. Gray and Siddharth Suri</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/ghost-work-how-to-stop-silicon-valley-from-building-a-new-global-underclass-by-mary-gray-and-siddharth-suri/</link><pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2019 22:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/ghost-work-how-to-stop-silicon-valley-from-building-a-new-global-underclass-by-mary-gray-and-siddharth-suri/</guid><description>There's a gray area between the robots taking over and human labor, and a new class of worker bridging the gap between what Artificial Intelligence systems can and can not do. Enter the world of Ghost Work."</description><category>Reviews</category><category>Jobs</category><category>AI</category></item><item><title>Success and Luck: Good Fortune and the Myth of Meritocracy by Robert Frank</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/success-and-luck-good-fortune-and-the-myth-of-meritocracy-by-robert-frank/</link><pubDate>Wed, 29 May 2019 22:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/success-and-luck-good-fortune-and-the-myth-of-meritocracy-by-robert-frank/</guid><description>Not enough people recognize the role that good fortune and luck plays in their success, and that too many people attribute their success entirely to their own hard work and virtue</description><category>Reviews</category><category>Jobs</category><category>Meritocracy</category></item><item><title>Generation Priced Out: Who Gets To Live In The New Urban America? by Randy Shaw</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/generation-priced-out-who-gets-to-live-in-the-new-urban-america-by-randy-shaw/</link><pubDate>Tue, 03 Jul 2018 11:36:00 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/generation-priced-out-who-gets-to-live-in-the-new-urban-america-by-randy-shaw/</guid><description>The challenges around housing in urban areas are about NIMBY politics and the generation that owns everything, according to Randy Shaw. Stories from San Francisco, New York, Seattle, Austin, LA and Denver illuminate.</description><category>Reviews</category><category>Housing Crisis</category><category>Boomers</category></item><item><title>Bullshit Jobs by David Graeber</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/bullshit-jobs-davide-graeber/</link><pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2018 22:19:45 -0700</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/posts/bullshit-jobs-davide-graeber/</guid><description>Meaning and purpose. David Graeber's book is about the growth of jobs with neither.</description><category>Reviews</category><category>Jobs</category></item><item><title>About</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/about/</link><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/about/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Hey, I&amp;rsquo;m Danielle. The Part Everyone Skips is my personal book review blog and reading journal where I share my book reviews, recommendations, thoughts and ideas.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I started it because reading has always been how I think, how I orient myself, and how I return to myself when everything feels too loud. Not as a productivity system. Not as a list of “must-reads.” As a practice.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What you’ll find here are notes, passages, reflections, and traces of books that stayed with me, reviews, lists of books I want and am curious about. Sometimes that looks like a quote I couldn’t let go of. Sometimes a short response. Sometimes a longer meditation that started as a margin note and grew legs.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Newsletter</title><link>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/newsletter/</link><pubDate>Mon, 01 Jan 0001 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://theparteveryoneskips.com/newsletter/</guid><description>&lt;h2 id="read-along"&gt;Read along.&lt;/h2&gt;
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